Wednesday, 18 February 2015

May I Tie Your Shoe?


In the book of Genesis God asked Cain, "Where is your brother Abel?" Cain responded with some irritation, "I don't know. Am I my brother's keeper?" (Genesis 4:9).

God seems to be saying, we should know about our brothers and sisters - their whereabouts and needs. We tend to respond that we don't want to be bothered about the needs of our fellow human beings. We have enough problems of our own.

I will probably not soon forget the situation I observed. An older couple, probably in their middle to late 70s, was standing in front of Ikeja City Mall . Suddenly the lady said to her husband, "my shoe is untied". She had her arm in a brace and obviously needed some help. Her husband hesitated for a moment to bend down and tie the shoe, not because he was unwilling to do so, but rather because he had some physical limitations of his own.

Suddenly, almost out of nowhere, a young man, most likely to be in his thirties, appeared. With a bright smile on his face he said to the elderly woman,  “may I tie your shoe ma?" Surprised she responded in the affirmative. "Yes! My husband has an arthritic hand and can't tie them so well." The young man said, "I'm younger. I'll do it!" And he bent down and tied the woman's shoe laces.

"Oh thank you son", she responded. "And God bless you." And off went that cheerful and helpful young man - or was he an angel? He left behind two quite amazed seniors. When does anyone offer to be so helpful? Somewhat rarely. In that one small act they had experienced a marvel of love and grace.

Whether that young man was a Christian I know not. I can say, he certainly acted like one. Jesus told his followers to "love each other". In this way everyone would know that they are followers of Jesus Christ. (John 13:35) I really think that young man was a follower of Jesus. He indicated that by his loving action.

Once, Jesus was washing his disciples' feet - a messy job at best. They wore sandals in those days and needed to wash the dust of the road off their feet. Then Jesus told his disciples that they, too, should wash each other's feet. Admittedly, that was a humble and lowly act. The disciples of Jesus had been reluctant to perform this duty of a servant. But Jesus did it!

Since we don't wear sandals much anymore, I think Jesus would say to us,"you need to tie each others' shoes". If we see a need, whatever it is, we should step in and fill that need, if possible. In fact, Jesus went even further. He said, "Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends." (John 15:13) That's a high standard of friendship. But that's what Jesus did for us. He laid down his life on the cross for us, his friends. We ought to give ourselves freely to the needs of others.

There is no shortage of human need. So many around us are hungry, sick and poor. When we have the means, as Christian believers we have the opportunity and the privilege, even the obligation to feed the hungry, clothe the naked and care for the sick. Obviously, none of us can meet every need. But all of us can meet some need. Even if we can't do everything, we can do something. And when we do, we show the love of God to a very needy world.

When was the last time you bent down and tied someone else's shoe?

Wednesday, 21 January 2015


Is It Really About Buhari Or Jonathan?

Nigeria, our motherland, faces advancing levels of danger each day. Every move to pull her from the brink is set for ruination by those who think that the country is all about them. They have narrowed issues to a few politicians, instead of the larger interests of Nigerians, without which the country would remain mired in its many challenges.
The latest scheme, bereft of agenda to improve Nigeria, is to project the personalities of President Goodluck Jonathan and General Muhammadu Buhari as the issue in the 2015 elections. Little is said about how any of them would be the better person to pull Nigerians out of the limbo strings of poor policies have dumped them.
Blames, name-calling, and sheer abuses have become the new order of campaigns. Everything is wrong with the other person. Every action is subjected to scrutiny that gives the impression that we are searching for saints as President. If we were, we would not find one, for there is none, at least in Nigeria, or willing to bear the burden of leading Nigeria out of these precarious times.
The Peoples Democratic Party, PDP and the All Progressives Congress, APC, have focused their attention on the personality of the each other’s presidential candidate. Nigerians are only of fringe interest to both parties. Where does the everlasting name-calling and blame sharing place Nigerians? How does troubles politicians cause benefit Nigerians?
Political parties, one of the more outspoken politicians has said, are in the business of winning elections. It is the most forthright offering from a politician, a remark that all Nigerians should take serious as they make their choices in 2015, not only for the President, but through all the legislatures to the executives. Sentiments would be unhelpful.
Nigeria’s challenges run through every stratum of the power rungs. Rot at the local governments affects the people more than decisions in Abuja and state capitals. The castration of the local governments through constitutional lacunas on their status has pushed governance away from the people. The politicians are delighted at the fact that they hold power without being accountable to anyone.
Our concerns, as a people, should be the agenda for 2015 and beyond. Politicians are obsessed with power. They do anything to get it. From the sharp divisions that emerged at the party primaries, it is clear that politicians are ready to grab power at any cost. The people are an inconvenient baggage in this journey.
It is time Nigerians re-directed attention to basic issues affecting us. Jonathan and Buhari are not the issue; they are mere images politicians conveniently cling to in their collective mission to claim Nigeria again – for themselves.


Thursday, 24 July 2014

The Lagos Experience: Going Home in yellow and black

It finally hit 5:00pm!!!! Guess what time it was? Yes u got it! Closing time!!!! I packed my bag and headed home...

Unfortunately for me, my office is located at the in depth of an estate which hasn't been well developed 

Loool. There is no dream that would make me find a cab here. I had to walk down to the main junction which was a 20 mins walk. On my way I saw this...
Something about this picture makes me want to get wrapped on my mothers arms. It was a very beautiful sight that portrayed love, innocence and happiness.
Moving on, I finally got to the junction. I saw a lot of busses and I decided to take one home. "Ikeja?"    "Yes ikeja"   "Oya enter"..... There was excitement in my heart! Busses aren't bad at all!!!!
Okay, a little bit annoying but it's really not as horrible and nasty as everyone claims.
I got carried by the beautiful street arts, the traffic traders and advertisements that I forgot to drop at my stop (not like I even knew it was my stop). The bus conductor asked me where I'm dropping and I said ikeja. "But we are already in ikeja!!! You no sabi road?" He asked. "no o I no sabi road. U fit direct me?". After I got my direction, I headed for it.

Going in that direction, I asked the first set of people where I could find maruwa (keke na pep) going to the street where I stay, I got directions again!

Finally!!!!! I found them!!!
And I got onboard one of them. They are really scary but more fun than the bus. Lol. This is what inside looked like 
Lots of people prefer to call it tricycle but I like keke better. This old keke driver was totally gangster. He was so rough and kept on using swear words. This was my favorite view
I loved today!!!!!!!!!! 
I really loved today. Gaining experience is probably the best thing that can happen to anyone depending on how you choose to interpret those experiences.




Work finally!!!

After two days of the longest rests ever taken, my first day of work is finally here!!!! I'm not as excited as I sound tho.

I was up by four to get my hair done. The out come after an hour was a bun. Lmao.

Havnt had breakfast not I'm crazy hungry and it's just past two. 
I was gonna develop a new experience by using bus to my place of work. I couldn't just bring myself to do it but with the amount of cab fare I paid today, I won't need anyone to ginger me. Lol. 
 
The traffic was unbearable!!!!! Did I mention that I am hungry!!!!!

The worst part is that I'm not getting paid!!! I don't even have an idea of when I'm to close for work. 

No one seems to be talking to me. I feel bad. Maybe my snubish look is on but I don't even know. 

Thank God for IPhone! I would have become suicidal after today. Just kidding. 

Can't wait for the weekend!!!!! 




Tuesday, 22 July 2014

Poetic Justice 2

I got laughed at for holding my bible at the airport by some white teenagers. Took me some time to ask them what was funny about my bible but I did anyway. They said that I just look really serious taking it everywhere I go. I smiled and said He was serious when he died for me tho.

Monday, 21 July 2014

Ready for the Lagos experience!!!

Yaaaay!!!! I have finally arrived lagos after the endless rescheduling of my flight.... It was unbearable when my phone died!

Well at the airport I saw MO from moments with MO. Lol.
Enough fooling around. I am in Lagos for my industrial training. I'm extremely excited to have this really popular "Lagos Experience". I know I sound really local but the truth is I am local and  sassy!

So, I decided to spend my first night in a hotel before I finally get to my apartment and kick off the hard life.
To start, I am having Suya for dinner. It's very tough to chew but it's worth the struggle. 

It would be the biggest pleasure taking everyone on the Lagos experience wagon with me. Feel free to hop in, but I ain't sharing my Suya!

Saturday, 19 July 2014

Poetic Justice 1

Wrote this some weeks ago. I wasn't going through an emotional phase of any kind. I hope it means something to you.